No. 001 · NaN September 2026
Do you think this is normal, or should I feel uncomfortable?
One of my male colleagues likes to joke with me, but I already have a boyfriend, and he’s also in a relationship. He makes comments like, “You’re my type, a small-sized girl with a cute face.” One time, I was talking with my team about a horoscope I’d read, which said I might face a cheating situation in the coming years. He then joked that he had read his horoscope too, and it said he would face the same situation at exactly the same time, implying that I could be his affair in the future. I know he’s probably just trying to be funny, but I feel awkward and uncomfortable with these kinds of jokes. It feels like he’s crossing a boundary. What do you guys think? — First posted on the BoundaryLab forum by Anonymous, 11 August 2025. Kept here with the name they chose.